Want some free anti-harassment and anti-discrimination training? Well, have I got a deal for you! Mystery Diners is a reality show on the Food Network. The show’s concept involves a father-daughter team who pretend to be employees and/or customers at a target restaurant in order to help the owner uncover the “leaks in the dam” so to speak.
An episode that aired last week, called, “Managing Disaster,” could be used as a workplace best-practices training video. In short, you could use the video to train employees that any of the conduct by the restaurant’s manager should be considered prohibited conduct in your workplace.
Yes, it really was that bad. And I mean bad. Let me take a moment to run through just a few examples of conduct that occurred during the hiring process.
Candidate #1: Sarah the “Old Lady”
Two women are sent into the restaurant to interview for a waitress position. One of the women is Sarah, who is in her mid-30s and has lots of waitressing experience. She interviewed with the bad-guy-manager (we’ll call him “Manager,” despite he did anything but manage the employees).
During the interview, he asked her how old she was. Yes, you read that correctly. When she answered “I’m 35,” Manager nearly fell out of his seat. He quickly sent her on her way and told her he’d be in touch. After she was out the door, he ran over to the bar, where he told the bartender that Sarah “was like, in her 30s–she’d be like a mother in here!!”
Candidate #2: Destiney In a Short Skirt
The second candidate was Destiney, the daughter of the father-daughter team, who I’d guess to be maybe 21 years old. Destiney was young and cute and wore a short skirt to her interview. As if Manager hadn’t already shown his true colors during Sarah’s interview, he took it to an entirely new level with Destiney. By the end of the “interview,” though, you can be sure that Destiney had been offered the job.
For starters, he made her sit on a couch for the interview, which was not only way too informal but also clearly uncomfortable for Destiney in light of her attire. When Destiney admitted that she had no real experience to speak of, Manager assured her that experience was not important–“as long as you’re cute.”
Ethical Standards Lower than a Short Skirt
Seeing that he couldn’t ask her about anything relevant to the duties of the job, I guess it’s natural that Manager turned to other topics. In this case, Manager chose “partying,” and began a series of questions about Destiney’s after-hour activities, such as whether she liked to “party” and whether she liked to go clubbing, which “they” (presumably, Manager and his creepy friends), “did all of the time.”
The low point of the “interview” came when Manager touched Destiney’s knee as he sat way too close to her on the low-to-the-ground couch and talked about low-life topics like “partying” and assuring her that his standards for hiring were as low as his morals. What a dirt bag. And you can imagine what the father, who sat in a trailer watching the live video stream with the restaurant’s owner, must have thought as he saw Manager Creepy touch Daughter Destiney’s bare knee. Nice.
When Busted, Blame Others
Folks, the take-aways from this episode are, admittedly, obvious to most of us. They weren’t, apparently, as obvious to Manager Creepy, who was shocked and appalled that the owner had secretly videotaped these antics. And, in a demonstration of some of the best blame-shifting skills I’ve perhaps ever seen, Manager Creepy, furious about the intrusion, turned the entire situation around and accused the owner of being an unsupportive boss.
Be sure to catch the show for some free anti-harassment-and-discrimination training.